Can never have a single nice thing.
I was 17 when I wrote that,” she reminds me. “That’s the age you are when you think someone can actually take your boyfriend. Then you grow up and realise no one takes someone from you if they don’t want to leave.
Anonymous said: what are porn alternatives?
You need to take a step back, critically assess your attachment to porn and most importantly, stop thinking about yourself and your own orgasms.
Anti-porn activisim is not about you and it is not about how you can continue to consume (mostly) women as a commodity free of guilt. If you feel guilty about consuming mainstream porn - you should.
But don’t you dare rack up the nerve to ask me about alternatives. This is not because I think sex is wrong, that masturbation is wrong or that sexual exploration is wrong. It is because I do not, for a second, want to draw attention away from the mass abuse that is occurring within the mainstream sex industry right now. That’s not what I am here for and that is not why I am doing this.
People are being raped, beaten, coerced and abused. 12 year olds are learning that physically and verbally violent sex is ‘normal’ and ‘to be expected.’ Sex trafficking still exists, child trafficking still exists, sexual slavery still exists, women are still being bought and sold as commodities and still do not have full bodily autonomy and you are asking about porn alternatives?
There’s a lot more to this issue than me telling you to go read a vanilla manga for the sake of your guilty conscience.
Think critically. And don’t draw attention away from the atrocities that are happening every single day in the porn industry.
These women’s lives come first; your precious orgasms come second.
Justin Bartels - Impression (2012)
I can’t not reblog this.
This is the best thing on the Internet. We undress everyday and it shows us how confined we are. Those imprints show how uncomfortable we are throughout each day just to impress other people. We create prisons in our own clothes. We are a prisoner in a socially constructed idea of what is beautiful.
yes its back
My body’s covered in these marks every day and it fucking hurts
There’s no point to a guy yelling, “Hey sexy baby” at me out of the passenger window of a car as it speeds past. Even if I was into creepy misogynists and wanted to give him my number, I couldn’t. The car didn’t even slow down. But that’s okay, because he wasn’t actually hitting on me. The point wasn’t to proposition me or chat me up. The only point was to remind me, and all women, that our bodies are his to stare at, assess, comment on, even touch. “Hey sexy baby” is the first part of a sentence that finishes, “this is your daily message from the patriarchy, reminding you that your body is public property”.
If guzzling cum & getting fucked up the ass by multiple strangers for money makes you feel empowered, then I guess do you, girl!
One thing I will never understand is when someone hurts you, and they know they did, and then have the nerve to say they care about you.
Are you serious?
You just stabbed me in the back, and pulled the knife out and put a bandaid on it as if it’s okay,
You just punched me in the face and told me not to bleed,
You just fucking ruptured my eardrums with lies and have the nerve to ask if I’m okay, as if I can hear you!